Friday, April 24, 2015

My love hate relationship with libraries

Growing up I spent a lot of time in our local library. When my parents would go and read, my brother and I would pick out books to read. Listening to story time or other events as a kid was pretty fun. It wasn’t until I became an adult, in my twenties that I started to have issues with libraries. I have no problem admitting they have a purpose and its great lending system and could be beneficial to the community. Especially for those who simply do not have the budget to purchase several books on a regular basis. What I didn’t appreciate was bringing back a book only to find that I was charged a late fee. 

I’ve always been responsible at bringing a book back. The first time I had a fee I wanted to check out the same book since I hadn’t finished it and had a day left. Someone else was waiting for the book which was fine; I had planned on checking it out again later. When I did come in to see if they had returned it, I had a late fee for it waiting for me. As an idiot I paid for it. I was given the speech how the library operates on fees to pay for costs. I looked at it as an unofficial donation even though I hadn’t appreciated being treated as though I had done something wrong since I didn’t want to pay the fee and returned it on time. This happened three more times so I stopped going to the library for several years.

I had married at 19 and only stayed here for 2 years, moved to another state (WI) and had the same issues. All I could assume had been libraries much be taught the same tactics. Some twenty years later when I moved back home (MI) and thought I would give our library a chance; it was relocated in a new building and looked very nice. I had a book ready to check out only to find that there was a book checked out under my name that had been returned later. I wasn’t even in this state during that time and I know I never loaned my card to anyone to use. That’s the excuse they gave me, was that I must have lent my card to someone to borrow. Definitely not something I would ever do. I don’t loan things I’m responsible for that are not mine, I would loan a few books I owned myself but definitely not ones from the library. They refused to take the fee off so I refused to pay the fine. I haven’t been into that library since.

Now living in a smaller town my husband convinced me he has never had that problem so I gave it a try. We checked out a few audio books to a long drive. We returned these late, this fee we actually earned. We also paid for it. Second time I go in to check out an audio book to find a late fee still, for a physical book. I have yet to check out a physical book at this library so now I have decided I am done with them. No more chances, for my own children I choose to purchase their books. If there is going to be a late fee I would rather purchase a book and own it then borrow one and get charged either for a book I didn’t borrow or for something I know wasn’t late.

I’m thankful this didn’t turn me off to reading. The simple fact I love reading and I love reading has kept me inspired